Thursday, 9 June 2011

Pleasures in my life: Weddings!


just a quick update on 2 weddings I went to in the last 2 weeks:

My Cousin - Syed Khairil Izhar (kitorang panggil Khai je) and wifey , Dilla

I went to the reception kat Felda Tersang, Raub, Pahang...it's a very traditional wedding, kampung-style where all the neighbors 'rewang' together ...

nikah kat masjid

Patu last weekend was the reception at our family's side plak. I was late to this one coz just came back from Jitra for Zara's wedding the previous day!

kuning gitewww

Zara's wedding! (one of my close fren Zaranurhuda + husband, Kamal Irfan)

went to Kedah on Thurs midnite, terpaksa bawak laptop and do work in the bus to Alor Star (sbb tgh closing and we have deadlines)...went with Fatin+Azhar, Aliaa a.k.a Pre and Awien

stayed in Fatin's house at Taman PKNK , Alor Setar...thanks so much to Fatin and family for their hospitality...kenyang duk rumah diorang tauuu...

Zara's nikah is the next day, Friday after solat Jumaat. Pelik and funny, there were 5 couples there to be solemnised back to back! pengantin lelaki sume duduk beratur in one line kat saf depan tunggu turn, one after another. It was so quick, sampai tau2 je , dah sudah ...hahahah...

kat masjid. tgh tunggu nak nikah

Next day the reception pulak...I was the pengapit...Zara looked stunning in purple magenta dress...I dun have my fon with me most of the time, so ni je gambar yang ada...


Congratulations to both couples...I'm so happy for you guys. Just praying that my relationship akan dapat restu keluarga, that we would soon have enough money to get married, and most importantly, hidup sederhana and bahagia after marriage. After all, to me, marriage is more important than the wedding kan? tak guna of wedding of the year pun, if after setahun bercerai berai...

so pls doakan for me ye korang? I really want a blissful marriage that lasts a lifetime, with someone that I love, and someone who loves me.. but lately pressure jugak bile orang cakap that I must marry someone more successful than me, someone yang gaji 5-6 figures, I kena dapat hantaran 20k, suami kena handsome so that anak2 comel...perlu ke semua tu?

Actually to me, cukuplaa hidup dalam kesederhanaan...kalau ada rezeki lebih, alhamdulillah...asalkan we get to have the necessities in life: ada rumah, kereta, makanan, pakaian ...itu yang suami patut bagi kat kita kan? Alhamdulillah to those yang husband can provide a luxurious life, rumah+ kete besar, allowance for branded clothes etc. But to me, I terima my future husband as he is..apa yang dia mampu bagi, I will accept. Coz if I want things, I actually can get it on my own. Cuma, lelaki kena ada responsibility. Even if the wife lebih mampu dari you, you should try to give basic necessities for her...kerana itu tanggungjawab suami.

Tapi kalau isteri lebih mampu untuk tambahkan income to the family, apa salahnya. Salah jika suami ambil kesempatan dgn apa yang isteri contribute. Salah kalau suami duduk goyang kaki whilst the wife bertungkus lumus cari rezeki. Marriage is firstly rasa hormat and perkongsian tanggungjawab, and secondly bertolak ansur.

eh, lari topik pulak...hahahah kan dh emo plaks cite psl marriage ni. No matter how much I want an ideal marriage , semua kuasa Allah untuk bagi apa yang kita deserve kan.. let's doa for the best..

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